Self-Care for Caregivers
By: Esme Nicanor, Caregiver Specialist
What is Self-Care?
Self-care has become a trending topic in recent years, with an increase in not only the use of the word but an increase in the need for self-care itself. That being said, self-care has also become sensationalized, an industry in and of itself. When people think of self-care they imagine luxury spas, massages, and extravagant resorts. “Self-care” and “investment” have become synonymous.
However, no purchase is necessary for genuine self-care. Self-care is anything that will improve an aspect of your wellbeing. Self-care can be scheduling time for filing your taxes and paying bills, praying, or playing music that you enjoy. Self- care can also be less “productive”; taking a nap or a day off can be self-care in the form of recharging your battery. According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), there are a total of eight dimensions of wellness (SAMHSA pdf source). They include:
- Emotional wellness
- Environmental wellness
- Financial wellness
- Intellectual wellness
- Occupational wellness
- Physical wellness
- Social wellness
- Spiritual wellness
For example, scheduling a doctor or dentist appointment is caring for your physical wellness and cleaning your house is environmental wellness. So, while we often think of self-care as a practice that is time consuming or expensive, there are little day tasks that fall into different aspects of wellness and are therefore self-care.
Why is Self-Care Important?
In making the active choice to begin seeing these actions as self-care, one can begin engaging in these activities in a more mindful and intentional way. This increase in mindful engagement with the everyday tasks one already completes can assist in emotional regulation and change the way we interact with the world and other people.
How Does Self-Care Apply to Caregivers?
For caregivers, engaging in self-care is especially important. Caregiving requires giving your time and energy to the benefit of another person, making it important that you as the caregiver have time and energy to give in the first place.
There is a very popular analogy for this notion, when you’re on a plane they instruct you to secure your own oxygen mask before helping others secure theirs. Self-care as a caregiver is the action of putting on your own oxygen mask first and then being better equipped to secure the mask on your loved one, ensuring that your loved one is receiving quality care.
Engaging in self-care as a caregiver also reduces the risk of burnout. In taking a step back and reframing the way we think about self-care it will become easier to begin engaging in it on the day-to-day, and it will be less likely that we’ll reach the point of exhaustion.
Where Can I Get More Help or Information?
Kenneth Young offers self-care classes in which we teach tools that touch on the multiple dimensions of wellness listed above. Stay tuned for an upcoming article where we will discuss these classes in more depth. Be sure to follow us on social media to find out when we will offer our next class!
Sources
Why is Self-Care Important? | SNHU
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